February 04, 2012

I Definitely Was Not Up In Your Bed...Sorry Try Again

I Hate Men Who Speak Fabricated Stories.

Basically there's this guy at my work place who was messing with, or involved with my close friend....But the twist is I kinda felt vibes coming from this guy that seemed strange. He gave me vibes of (if i wasn't talking to your home gurl me and you would be talking) but I dunno I chalked it up to my imagination and ignored it.

Now this same guy my friend was talking to seem to playful towards me and I honestly did not like that sh*t....I would curse him out and insult him regularly but I guess for him it meant i liked him....I Dunno, this is what I am assuming. I never hung out with him one on one but i did double date with him and my close friend twice. Fast foward some and now I'm hearing rumors all around my workplace that he smashed my friend and me.

WHATTTT?!? First of all I don't know who is creating this rumors and I feel sucked into the whole situation because my friend involved herself with this shady individual. This is exactly why I just do my job and go the fu*k home without involving myself with my male co workers.

When men see a female they can not attain they create any and everything to make it seem like they have conquered you. I tell my friend all the time do NOT mess around with the men you work with because that can come back and give you a bad name. Now I'm sucked into her bullsh*t with her...smh.

Men love to put up a front and they live for bragging about smashing girl a, b, and c.....and that's kool I guess because fast girls put themselves in a position to be put on blast like that. However, I DO NOT RESPECT a man who brags about who they did NOT smash just to appear like "the man" in front of his boys.

Some men need to grow up and realize they are not little boys anymore...and that's exactly why I keep my distance from sus ass men and sus ass situations. I can always say my name is been it and I wasn't in it because I make sure to carry myself with respect around men I do not know.

Do You Guys Date Or Deal With Your Co Workers On A Intimate Level? If So Did It Work?

I Wud Never Ever Eat Where I Lay My Head.....It's Just Asking For Trouble!


Robyn Latice said...

I hate men who lie about this nonsense, especially when it involves me.

I got involved with a co-worker once.

It was a disater.
I decided to date him..but he was clingy so i cut him off, against his own knowledge. I just stop communicating all together, it traveled over into the work atmosphere.Messy dumb ass situation. SMh. I've learned my lesson though. Never again.

S Jones Aka Shirley said...

@Robyn Yesssss you totally get me on this! When you stop pursuing the relationship with who it is that you are dealing with that is EXACTLY when it gets messy. No maam not me, never again. And I must say I LOVE YOUR BLOG, reading your stuff inspired me to start writing again so THANKS please keep your posts coming.