March 11, 2009

I Got A Donk But Not A DONK


This Is A Really Iffy Topic For Me. Lately Me And My Boo Have Been Getting Into It About Body Types. My Dream Body Is To Have A Nice Petite Frame, No Gut, And Maybe A Lil Booty, But Nothing Overwhelming. My Dream Weight ( For Myself Anyway) Would Be 120-125 Pounds, But Mister Man Disagrees Completely To The Point Where He Thinks I'M WEIRD! I Would Never Ask My Boyfriend If He Thought I Was Fat Because I'm Sure He Would Lie...If I'm Fat Then I'm Fat, Don't Sugar Coat It. In All Honesty Over The Years I've Been Guilty Of Starving Myself Here And There When I've Felt A Little Tubby But Somehow I Keep Getting Told My Fatness Is All In My Head. Apparently Self Starvation Is A No-No And The Wrong Way To Go About Losing Weight And I Know That, But Why Do I Feel The Need To Be So Skinny?

Day To Day I'm Bombarded With Different Images Of What Beautiful And Sexy Is, And Hell I'm Confused. We Turn The T.V. Onto BET And See Women Like Melissa Ford, And Miss Lola Luv. On The Other Hand We Turn On MTV And See Women Like Lindsey Lohan, And Hillary Duff. WAT IN THE WORLD?!? For Some Reason I've Noticed That What White Guys Find Sexy, And Attractive Isn't Exactly What An African American Man Finds Sexy And Attractive. Ask An African American Guy If He'd Choose Lindsey Lohan Or Beyonce (Body Wise) And I Bet You I'd Know What A Majority Of Them Would Choose.


If I Had To Choose My Dream Body Then I Would Definitely Have To Go With Meagan Good's Body. She's Naturally Slim (Which I'm Not), She Has No Tummy, And She Doesn't Have A Gigantic Rear ( I Would Want A Bigger Rear Though). If My Boyfriend Got To Choose My Dream Body He Would Probably Go With Buffie The Body's Body. Ummm This Girl Is Abnormally Thick In My Opinion...Just Wow. She Has The Most Ginormous Butt, Like Is That Ish Even Legal Or Real...Smh. Now How Am I Supposed To Compete With A Woman With A Body Like That? Compared To Buffie I Have The Body Of A Twelve Year Old Girl...Ha. Different Strokes For Different Folks I Guess. From Research I've Done...lol..The Pattern Is The Bigger The Booty Or The Thicker The Girl, Then The More Attractive A Female Is. Don't Get Me Wrong Some Guys Do Like Pettite Women, I Mean Who Wouldn't Find Megan Good Attractive But I Dunno...Everyone Has Their Own Preference.

Buffie The Body Vs Megan Good









So Yea Guys And Gals Where Do You Stand On This? At What Size Do You Consider A Woman To Be Stunningly Beautiful? I Cant See Myself Being Miss Buffie's Size...Impossible And No WAY. I Guess For Now I Will Just Watch What I Eat, And Start Running When It Gets Warmer To Achieve My Meagan Good Body. Watch Out Summertime Here I Come!






4 comments:

cae alyssa.ann signin out.. said...

GiRL U DNT HAVE TO LOSE WEiGHT TO MAKE SOMEONE ELSE HAPPY..A GREAT WAY TO LOSE WEiGHT iS TO EAT RiGHT && EXERCiSE..SOUNDS HARD BUT YEA. iF U DO EAT THE SAME FOODs JUST PUT iT iN PROPORTiONS AND DON'T RANDOMLY EAT SNACKS. U CAN FiND A FREE GYM AT A SCHOOL OR WALK DAiLY W/ NON-SUGAR FLUiDS..SRRY iF iM JUST RAMBLiNG i USED TO BE AN ATHLETE LOL. OOH YEA && DNT STARVE URSELF AGAiN..SUPERRRR UNSAFE. =)

S Jones said...

Thanx For The Advice I Will Definitely Take It Up. Im Trying To Slowly Detox Myself Off Of The Weekly Mc Donald's And Chinese Food Runs.

Marcine said...

WOW. You say you even go as far as starving yourself...... I went as far as to over-eating. Being skinny, and hearing people call you names. The worse thing someone said to me was that I look like I have sickle cell. I was That skinny. I started eating at dunking donuts for breakfasts, McDonald's for lunch and chinese for dinner, only to put on weight. Eventually I learned that nobody has a perfect body. There is a fault in all of us.

Marcine said...

Eating healthy and exercising, those are the only two things that could better our body.